*Kids*
On several occasions, i have watched parents allow a rebellious child to become the focus of their family life. Meanwhile, the compliant children get neglected. Before long, the "good kids" start pulling against Mom and Dad in order to regain the attention and affection they once enjoyed. Without a conscious decision on Mom and Dad's part, the vision shifts from raising morally and socially responsible children to "fix funke." Almost overnight, things are out of alignment. Family members are working toward different ends.
*Business*
In business, chances are, you will hit some bumps along the way. They will demand some attention. But be careful not to allow the pursuit of your vision to be replaced with crisis management.
*Marriage*
Every individual contemplating marriage has a mental picture of what could be and should be in a family. you have a vision. Your vision or picture becomes an agenda. Once you are married you begin working toward the goal of arranging reality to match the picture. Where it becomes problematic is when two people have different pictures, different visions. Once they say i do, each begins working toward a slightly different goal. If their pictures are not in alignment, their visions will be in conflict. What could be and perhaps should be, won't be --in either case.
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